Category Archives: Leadership

Ministers Guilty of Sexual Sin: Lessons from Penn State Etc.

This is longer than usual but very important. I’m an elder and I’m a lawyer. I counsel churches about all sorts of things, in both capacities. And sexual sin by a leader — a minister or even an elder — … Continue reading

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Another Way to Do Youth Ministry Campus Ministry Ministry: Some Thought Questions

Tim Schmoyer, at “Life in Student Ministry,” has posted “6 Ways to Integrate Teens into Your Church.” Here are the six — 1. Serve in the church service. 2. Invite teenagers to youth leader meetings. 3. Encourage your Sr. Pastor … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children? Discerning Whether a Command is Temporary or Permanent, a Reply re Parts 1 and 2

Interesting discussion. Let me add a few points. 1. First, I can’t tell you how much it pleases me for the discussion to have begun with acknowledgment that inferential truths are not fellowship issues. However, I worry about the distinction … Continue reading

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Tulsa Workshop

As mentioned earlier, I’ll be speaking at the Tulsa Workshop in the spring. They have me set for for Friday afternoon, March 23, 2012.  The first session will be at 2:00, second session at 3:00, and third session at 4:00. The topics are … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children? Discerning Whether a Command is Temporary or Permanent, Part 2

We’re considering the broader principles of how to distinguish an eternal command from a culturally limited command. In the last post, we considered the basis for concluding that slavery is wrong even though the Scriptures do not condemn slavery, that … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children? Discerning Whether a Command is Temporary or Permanent, Part 1

Several times in the comments the question has arisen as to how to tell whether a command is temporary (culturally limited) or permanent (not culturally limited). It’s a question that is, of course, much larger than this particular topic. There … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children? Discerning the Nature of the Lists (edited)

Continuing with the line of reasoning presented in the last post, we need to make a list of the possibilities. This what I find in the comments and commentaries, but others may have other possibilities to add. * The passages … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children? Toward a Better Process for Deciding

When we’re confronted with a difficult choice — a choice where there are more data and more possibilities than we can easily think through, we tend to look for “handles,” that is, easy things to grab to get an answer. Thus, in the … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children? Analysis of the Analysis

Since I’m on hiatus, I’ve found myself reflecting on the last post quite a bit. And in reading through the comments, I noticed some patterns I thought might be worth mentioning. First, no one said anything about the joke on the … Continue reading

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Elders: May an Elder Serve with No Children?

I get emails — Our church is at the beginning stages of an elder selection process. One of the men I would like to nominate is willing to be an elder but he has a concern. He has no children … Continue reading

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