Ministers Guilty of Sexual Sin: Lessons from Penn State Etc.

This is longer than usual but very important.

I’m an elder and I’m a lawyer. I counsel churches about all sorts of things, in both capacities. And sexual sin by a leader — a minister or even an elder — happens all too often.

The following conversation never happened. It’s heavily fictionalized. But some elements are nearly word-for-word from actual conversations but not necessarily conversations I was a part of. This is what could easily happen when a minister is suspected of a sexual sin and an elder calls a lawyer. Pay attention. Continue reading

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Community Disciplines: Community Disciplines: Romans on Discipline (Romans 14 and Galatians)

Tim wrote,

Despite Paul’s efforts to the contrary, jews and gentiles remained at odds over issues such as food sacrificed to idols and circumcision (Galatians).

To believe that one position held by Paul trumps another, or visa versa, refuses to accept the context of each writer. Continue reading

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Another Way to Do Youth Ministry Campus Ministry Ministry: Some Thought Questions

Tim Schmoyer, at “Life in Student Ministry,” has posted “6 Ways to Integrate Teens into Your Church.” Here are the six —

1. Serve in the church service.

2. Invite teenagers to youth leader meetings.

3. Encourage your Sr. Pastor to speak to them.

4. Invite the teens to give input into the sermon.

5. Include teens into small groups with the adults.

6. Invite teenagers into church board meetings. Continue reading

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It’s Thanksgiving! Three Church of Christ Practices I’m Grateful For

Thanksgiving is my favorite holiday. Even better than Christmas. It takes much less preparation — but yet it requires some serious investment of time. Families travel across continents to be together on Thanksgiving — even if they don’t much like each other. It’s hard to appreciate a holiday that doesn’t cost some effort.

The credit card bills for Thanksgiving are much more manageable. The crowds to buy turkeys are nothing like the Christmas crowds. It’s not nearly as commercialized.

And you get an automatic two days off tacked on to a weekend. And so it’s never on Sunday. I mean, this year Christmas is on a Sunday, and in the Churches of Christ, we take communion every Sunday. Skipping is unthinkable. Moving it to Wednesday is unthinkable. But church on Christmas morning? Right after the kids have opened their presents? Not a good combination! Continue reading

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Community Disciplines: Community Disciplines: Romans on Discipline, Part 3 (chapter 14b)

Offense

Some who oppose the instrument would argue that they are “offended” by the instrument, a concept taken from the KJV translation —

(Rom 14:20-21 KJV) 20 For meat destroy not the work of God. All things indeed are pure; but it is evil for that man who eateth with offence.  21 It is good neither to eat flesh, nor to drink wine, nor any thing whereby thy brother stumbleth, or is offended, or is made weak.

The use of “offend” in the KJV is just a bad translation. That’s not what the Greek word translated means. And, of course, if the KJV were right, then any church member could control the church by choosing what is and isn’t offensive. (And this is exactly how this verse has been abused over the years.) More importantly, the word translated “is offended” does not appear in the best manuscripts. Thus, the language doesn’t appear in newer translations. Continue reading

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Community Disciplines: Community Disciplines: Romans on Discipline, Part 2 (chapter 14b)

Stumbling blocks

(Rom 14:13b ESV) 13b rather decide never to put a stumbling block or hindrance in the way of a brother.

Paul is ever the pastor, and while he is very concerned that we not divide over differences, he is also concerned that our differences not lead to subjective sin.

(Rom 14:14 ESV) 14 I know and am persuaded in the Lord Jesus that nothing is unclean in itself, but it is unclean for anyone who thinks it unclean.

Paul does not content himself with teaching what is true: “Nothing is unclean in itself.” Why not stop there? Because he realizes that not everyone will be persuaded in his heart — even if taught by an apostle from the Lord! Humans are frail, weak beings. We struggle to align our consciences with our intellect. We can know something is not sin and still feel like sinners when doing it. Continue reading

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Community Disciplines: Community Disciplines: Romans on Discipline, Part 2 (chapter 14b)

Romans 14 is quite controversial in the Churches of Christ today, because it runs so contrary to much of our preaching.

(Rom 14:6 ESV)  6 The one who observes the day, observes it in honor of the Lord. The one who eats, eats in honor of the Lord, since he gives thanks to God, while the one who abstains, abstains in honor of the Lord and gives thanks to God.

In the last post of this series, we covered the first few verses of this chapter. Paul plainly declares that those who disagree on whether it’s sin to eat meat (non-kosher or sacrificed to idols) and on whether it’s a sin not to honor the Sabbath (or other holy days) must accept each other as saved — despite their doctrinal disagreements. Continue reading

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Attractional vs. Missional: A Presentation by Alan Hirsch, Part 5 (The Holy Laundromat)

This one is entirely experimental, as described in a comment by reader Adam several weeks ago.

Here is my wife’s idea – and I think it’s brilliant!! …

Laundromats exist in low-income, neglected areas. Laundromats are already a meeting and gathering place. People who visit laundromats will be there for an extended period of time with not a whole lot to do. It sure seems to me like an ideal environment in which community and relation can be built.

With some clever design and forethought, the laundromat can become a church in the truest sense, and one that seeks out those who are most in need of the church.

And while the laundromat would take some significant funds on the front side for construction, it would, hopefully, become self-sustaining, not through contributions from those it is serving, but through the normal operation of its business. In addition, it provides much needed jobs within those communities where jobs within walking distance (transportation is unreliable for many in these areas) are hard to come by.

For those interested, I have had an architect draw up preliminary plans for one, as I think this is the best idea I’ve heard for what “church planting” could/should look like in modern America, and maybe elsewhere as well. Continue reading

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Attractional vs. Missional: A Presentation by Alan Hirsch, Part 4 (The Trailer Park Small Group)

This is a tough one to write about — because it makes me feel small. Let me explain.

A friend of mine, a little older than me, and his wife raised two children they adopted as infants. I think the happiest I’ve ever seen two humans was when they got the news of the first adoption.

The kids are grown. The younger child, a son, has been in trouble with the law.

Meanwhile my friend, his dad, is coping with a wife who’s lost her mind — early onset dementia. It’s sadder than I have words to express. It’s so tough that one of our small groups has been helping with cutting the yard, making meals, and otherwise supporting him as best they can. Let’s call him “Job.” Continue reading

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It’s Friday! Top 10 Reasons Why Tim Tebow Isn’t Like Jesus

Tebow JesusOkay. I’ll admit it. I’m a Tim Tebow fan. Even though he played for Florida and knocked Alabama out of the national championship race a few years ago. The guy can play. At the college level. But he’s not Jesus.

There are at least 10 reasons for this. Here’s one —

*  Jesus would have completed more than 50% of his passes!

What other reasons can you think of?

 

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