Clergy & Laity: He says he’s suffering from burn out. Is he serious? (Murmuring)

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(Heb 13:17 ESV) 17 Obey your leaders and submit to them, for they are keeping watch over your souls, as those who will have to give an account. Let them do this with joy and not with groaning, for that would be of no advantage to you.

(Jam 5:9 ESV) Do not grumble against one another, brothers, so that you may not be judged; behold, the Judge is standing at the door.

(1Th 5:12-13 ESV)  12 We ask you, brothers, to respect those who labor among you and are over you in the Lord and admonish you, 13 and to esteem them very highly in love because of their work. Be at peace among yourselves.

It’s human nature to complain. In fact, it’s one of our favorite pasttimes. Continue reading

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How to Have a Good Time While Doing Good

Emerald Coast Wave
As a rule, I refuse to go to the Gulf coast over the 4th of July weekend — too expensive, too crowded, and too hot — by far. And, of course, this year there’s the oil slick thing. But this year, I went anyway. And it was the right decision.

I’d like to pretend that I was being all noble to help out the good people there who depend on the tourist trade, but the reality is that it’s when my family could go. And it wasn’t expensive, crowded, hot, or oily at all. It was actually really, really nice.

We stayed in a condo in San Destin (due south of Montgomery, Alabama), which is my favorite part of the beach. The oil scared away the worst of the crowd. The temperature was in the 80s and not humid. There was a great sea breeze the whole time. And there were no lines in the restaurants.

And even though it was the 4th of July weekend, the rentals were heavily discounted. (Not all units are discounted. You have to shop a bit.) It was (by beach standards) cheap. I imagine it’ll be cheaper still in a couple of weeks after the Independence Day holiday time is over.

I drove from San Destin to Pensacola to pick up my oldest son at the airport — about a 90-minute drive along the coast toward the west and the oil slick — and saw not a single tarball or slick. Now, I know that the tar has made it as far as Pensacola, because the newspaper had a picture, but the Ft. Walton, Destin, San Destin, Panama City area seems entirely oil free as far as I can tell. Lots of folks went in the water where I was and suffered not a single oily mishap.

So go the beach! It’s a great deal, and you will be helping out a truly ailing economy. The good people on the coast need the business.

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Faith Lessons from Ray Vander Laan: New MP3s!

Reader David Scott has posted 14 CDs worth of mp3s from a series of lectures given by Ray Vander Laan, available here.

Many thanks to David for sharing!

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The Holy Spirit: John 6 & 7

“It is the Spirit who gives life”

John’s Gospel can sometimes be very difficult, even nearly impenetrable.

(John 6:53-64 ESV) 53 So Jesus said to them, “Truly, truly, I say to you, unless you eat the flesh of the Son of Man and drink his blood, you have no life in you.  54 Whoever feeds on my flesh and drinks my blood has eternal life, and I will raise him up on the last day.  55 For my flesh is true food, and my blood is true drink.  56 Whoever feeds on my flesh and drinks my blood abides in me, and I in him.  57 As the living Father sent me, and I live because of the Father, so whoever feeds on me, he also will live because of me.  58 This is the bread that came down from heaven, not like the bread the fathers ate and died. Whoever feeds on this bread will live forever.”  59 Jesus said these things in the synagogue, as he taught at Capernaum.  Continue reading

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Clergy & Laity: He says he’s suffering from burn out. Is he serious? (Elders/Staff Relationship)

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The traditional model is to put the elders over the staff —

Elders
Staff
Members

Lately, some have noticed that the elders are to be servants, and so the old structure has been turned upside down, with the elders seen as encouraging and supporting the staff — Continue reading

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Clergy & Laity: Why Aren’t Preachers Also Elders?

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I’m enjoying this series a lot – thanks. Would you be willing to analyze the historical trajectory/reasons in the Churches of Christ which keep Church of Christ preachers from being elders (as in other congregational churches)?

Ask and you will receive.

I don’t have the resources to do a detailed study of how this attitude evolved, but it’s certainly true that the Churches of Christ have a distinct bias against appoint preachers as elders. I’m not sure of the extent to which the attitude has made it into the literature. For example, I just reviewed the extensive sections on elders in G. C. Brewer’s The Model Church and Robert Milligan’s The Scheme of Redemption. I don’t find anything about preachers becoming elders — or not. But the prevailing attitude is highly skeptical of preachers becoming elders. Continue reading

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Clergy & Laity: He says he’s suffering from burn out. Is he serious? (Elder Training)

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Once we have men in the eldership with the right raw material — the right gifts — we need for them to be well trained. You see, we have this insane notion that preachers need masters and doctorates and regular trips to lectureships and elders need to hear sermons. No, the elders need training beyond what they’ll find in the typical sermon series or Sunday school class lesson.

Here are the practical solutions — Continue reading

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Amazing Grace: On Restoring Those Fallen Away

grace2.jpgJMF posted this question (edited for space) —

One of the students in my class posted a question on the Church of Christ “House To House” website about the proposed reading of Heb.6:4-6 that is in The Holy Spirit and Revolutionary Grace (basically, taking the scripture exactly at face value). …

If you believe that people can fall away, then repent and be in God’s grace again.. then how do you explain Hebrews 6:4-6? My belief is that one can indeed fall away, but once one falls away, one cannot come back. Not because God wouldn’t forgive him, but because he would not have the desire to come back. One can fall away by losing faith, losing penitence, and trying to be justified by works. (It is much harder to fall away than the traditional Church of Christ view) Continue reading

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Clergy & Laity: He says he’s suffering from burn out. Is he serious? (Elders Who Aren’t Jackasses)

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From Monday Morning Insight, by Todd Rhodes,

Forty-eight percent of them think their work is hazardous to their family well-being. Another 45.5 percent will experience a burnout or a depression that will make them leave their jobs. And 70 percent say their self-esteem is lower now than when they started their position. They have the second-highest divorce rate among professions.

They are pastors. Continue reading

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Colossians: 1:18 – 23

Colossae mound

(Col 1:18-20 ESV) 18 And he is the head of the body, the church. He is the beginning, the firstborn from the dead, that in everything he might be preeminent.  19 For in him all the fullness of God was pleased to dwell,  20 and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether on earth or in heaven, making peace by the blood of his cross.

The body of Christ

It’s familiar cant to say that the church is the “body of Christ.” But we should pause to consider why Paul chooses to refer to the church as a body. There are multiple reasons.

He, of course, famously uses that image in 1 Cor 12 and Rom 12:4-8, when speaking of spiritual gifts, to emphasize the essential unity of the church despite the diversity of gifts within the church. Continue reading

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