As I’ve said before, I’ve never been in full-time ministry. But I’ve hung around ministers and ministers’ kids all my life. And I’ve observed that many ministers struggle to make friends.
Think about your home congregation. Who are your preacher’s best friends? Who will preach his funeral? If he couldn’t do it, who’d preach his daughter’s wedding?
Now, there are, of course, levels of friendship. The preacher may some friends who invite him to football games or to go fishing, but whose home does he visit on Friday nights? Who does he call to help fix the garage door — when he’s the guy who broke it? Who knows how much trouble he’s having raising his 12-year old daughter? Who at church is his BFF? Continue reading

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