From a reader —
Well we are studying your book (Holy Spirit and Revolutionary Grace) in our Sunday a.m. class. Most are really enjoying it. One is, to say the least, struggling with some of your thoughts on when is a person lost. Make that two people, I am struggling as well. But we are still in the mix, studying it.
The point brought up by this Christian in my class, she says, “I believe a person is lost who is living in sin.” She uses herself as an example and says, “In my life there was a time when I knew the Lord was trying to get me to turn around, but the two times when He did this, I said, “Not now Lord”.” She said, I know, and I teach, that if I died then, I would have been lost.
Well, my question to her was, what about the prodigal son? Was he lost while away from the Father? Wasn’t he welcomed back, forgiven, and had not lost his standing as a son?
I may have been using the wrong example and maybe I don’t get it. I know I don’t hold to the position that some hold that we are in and out of salvation numberless times during our lifetime. Each time we have to pray, confess to ‘get back in’. Obviously we forget or are not aware of the many things we do that are sin, even things ‘continued in’. When is a person lost? Well, I’m not the Judge for sure.
Grace is wonderful, it is as big as His love. There is at aleast as much grace and forgiveness for those in Christ as for those coming into Christ and having all their past forgiven.
Where am I going wrong?