David Crowder is Jesus’ Friend, Too!

For those new to the blog, this goes back to this post.

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MDR: Pastoral implications (Conclusion)

Divorce is a very, very serious matter. Broken marriages injure not only the spouses but also the children, the congregation, and the community. The church therefore is morally compelled to work diligently to prevent divorce, or better yet, the problems that lead to divorce.

Older church members grew up in an age when divorce was rare and most parents had a pretty good sense of how to parent and most spouses knew how to be good spouses. We sometimes fail to realize how very much has been lost in the last two or three generations, as children have grown up in broken homes and never learned skills that were once commonplace. Continue reading

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Judgment by Works, Part 1

In his Christianity Today article that we considered in the “Should We Be Emerging?” series, Scot McKnight said something very intriguing —

Jesus declared that we will be judged according to how we treat the least of these (Matt. 25:31-46) and that the wise man is the one who practices the words of Jesus (Matt. 7:24-27). In addition, every judgment scene in the Bible is portrayed as a judgment based on works; no judgment scene looks like a theological articulation test. Continue reading

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MDR: Pastoral implications (Divorce recovery)

B. Divorce recovery

If we do all these things, we’ll have happier marriages, better children, and fewer divorces. But so long as we’re evangelizing the world, we’ll always have men and women struggling with divorce.

For too long, we’ve figured that since divorce is wrong, our teaching stops with “don’t divorce.” Why teach about how to deal with divorce when no one is supposed to be divorced?

Well, that attitude is now pretty naïve, but old habits are hard to break. Continue reading

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Should We Be Emerging? Conclusions

If you really understand the point of the emerging movement, you’d know why it would be so inappropriate for me to try to reach firm conclusions. The emerging churches are all about conversation and discovery — and opposed to declaring that a final answer has been reached. Therefore, it’s impossible to capture the soul of the movement in a list of propositions. You see, being a true movement, it moves. Continue reading

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Should We Be Emerging? Politics

Well, the last element of the emerging church movement is the fact that most in the movement vote Democrat — which certainly separates them from much of evangelicalism. McKnight writes,

I don’t think the Democratic Party is worth a hoot, but its historic commitment to the poor and to centralizing government for social justice is what I think government should do. I don’t support abortion — in fact, I think it is immoral. I believe in civil rights, but I don’t believe homosexuality is God’s design. And, like many in the emerging movement, I think the Religious Right doesn’t see what it is doing. Continue reading

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Leadership Network Megachurch Salary Survey

The Leadership Network has published a salary survey of megachurches, which is very interesting. The most interesting part, to me, is the staffing ratio. The churches, on average, hire one fulltime person per 45 members. “Staff” is anyone on the payroll: janitors, secretaries, bookkeepers, and ministers.

The larger the church, the higher the ratio (the fewer staff members per 100 church members), with the ratio getting as high as 1 to 62 for churches of more than 7,000 members. Continue reading

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MDR: Pastoral implications (training)

i. Premarital counseling

In my hometown, many congregations of many denominations have gotten together and agreed to refuse to do a “church” wedding unless the couple agrees to pre-marital counseling. Excellent! The churches have agreed on a standard six-lesson course, and we’ve been very pleased with the instruction and results.

In my congregation, our ministers have occasionally persuaded couples not to marry, telling them they too immature or incompatible. Excellent! There’s no better time to end a bad marriage than before it happens. It’s not very romantic, and some preachers don’t have the courage to do this, but it can be the most compassionate possible thing to do. Continue reading

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Should We Be Emerging? Post-Evangelicalism: In vs. Out

McKnight parts with many in the emerging movement over the exclusivity of salvation.

An admittedly controversial element of post-evangelicalism is that many in the emerging movement are skeptical about the “in versus out” mentality of much of evangelicalism. Even if one is an exclusivist (believing that there is a dividing line between Christians and non-Christians), the issue of who is in and who is out pains the emerging generation. Continue reading

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MDR: Pastoral implications, Part 2 (Modesty)

i.                  Modesty

Which leads me to bring up modesty. If it’s a sin for a man to lust, it’s a sin for a woman to tempt the man to lust. We have to teach our women and girls to sacrifice fashion for the sake of God and protecting marriages.

Women see clothing as “cute” and dress to please one another. Men see clothes as indicating sexual availability. When a girl wears a camisole as a blouse, she thinks she’s being fashionable. Her mother thinks she’s darling. A man thinks she wearing bedroom clothing to advertise her sexuality. Men don’t read fashion magazines, but they know lingerie when they see it — and they know where lingerie is supposed to be worn. Continue reading

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