Adult Bible Class Myths: It’s a good idea to talk about other denominations

TeacherMyth #10. It’s a good idea to talk about other denominations. In my early years of teaching, I taught as I’d been taught–by teaching what “the denominations” do wrong. Sadly, sometimes there were visitors there from exactly those denominations, and all I did was make myself–and my church–look mean spirited.

It took years of negative teaching to finally realize that I was making some very un-Christian mistakes: Continue reading

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On Building Community in a Congregation

ShepherdIn my last series of posts dealing with Richland Hills and the instrumental music controversy, I mentioned the importance of building community in a congregation. It’s certainly more important and more urgent than buying a piano. You can bring in the New York Philharmonic Orchestra, and your members will still leave if your church doesn’t provide them community.

But I’ve had some trouble defining this concept of community I keep talking about. So I thought I’d try to explain myself– Continue reading

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Richland Hills, Instrumental Music, and the future of the Churches of Christ, Part 3

Angel with harpNow, all that being said, I have trouble seeing the Churches of Christ remaining a cappella for another 100 years. There are some very good reasons to seriously consider picking up a guitar or violin.

First, we live in a world where a cappella music is nearly unheard of. It’s always created a barrier to the unchurched, just because it’s so unusual, and the barrier is getting greater every year.

Teens and college students can’t go anywhere without their iPods. Kids burn their own CDs of downloaded music and swap them. The whole youth culture is centered on music, almost all of it instrumental.

While I’m very comfortable in an a cappella service, I can’t let my comfort–and preference–hurt my ability to seek and save the lost. Continue reading

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Richland Hills, Instrumental Music, and the future of the Churches of Christ, Part 2

Angel with harpChurch leaders considering having two different worship styles, whether instrumental or not, in two separate services have to wrestle with the risk of effectively creating two congregations that share a common building. If one service is traditional and another is contemporary, two different tastes in music are accommodated, but then members are allowed to separate in order to have their tastes accommodated.

Worse yet, if a church intends to one day build a larger facility and re-combine services, someone is going to be made very unhappy when they learn the new combined service doesn’t suit their taste.

Perhaps more worrisome is the doctrinal side of things. Continue reading

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Richland Hills, Instrumental Music, and the future of the Churches of Christ, Part 1

Angel with harpIt’s well known among the Churches of Christ that our largest congregation, the Richland Hills Church of Christ in Ft. Worth, recently decided to add an instrumental Saturday night worship service to their two Sunday morning a cappella services. I understand that the decision cost them 200 members, but that, in less than six months, they regained at least that many and are poised to continue their growth. But, then, they were out of room at their two Sunday morning services and couldn’t have grown at all without adding a third service of some sort.

Not surprisingly, many congregations are now wrestling with the question of whether to introduce instrumental music or a separate instrumental worship. Continue reading

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Communion Meditation: Why do the trays pass differently the third time around?

CommunionThe men who are waiting there in the back to pass out the trays to pick up the collection are perhaps the most under-appreciated servants of the church. As they pass the trays from row to row, they try hard to be inconspicuous in their labors and not to distract from the meditations of the members. They make their highly complex work look astonishingly simple.

Now, I realize most people assume that this is mindless, repetitive work. But this is just as wrong as can be. Consider, for example, the disaster that would occur Continue reading

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Litigation Between Brothers, part 2

ShepherdThere are a host of practical questions that arise in an effort to arbitrate a case between brothers. I don’t know all the answers, but here’s a stab at some answers–

Who is my brother?

This is, of course, the hottest, most difficult issue in the Churches of Christ today. I have my opinion (see The Holy Spirit and Revolutionary Grace, Do We Teach Another Gospel?, and Born of Water). You have yours. Continue reading

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Litigation Between Brothers, part 1

ShepherdIn a frequently ignored passage, Paul commands us not to take our disputes to the secular courts but to resolve them within the church.

(1 Cor. 6:1-8) If any of you has a dispute with another, dare he take it before the ungodly for judgment instead of before the saints? 2 Do you not know that the saints will judge the world? And if you are to judge the world, are you not competent to judge trivial cases? 3 Do you not know that we will judge angels? How much more the things of this life! 4 Therefore, if you have disputes about such matters, appoint as judges even men of little account in the church! 5 I say this to shame you. Is it possible that there is nobody among you wise enough to judge a dispute between believers? 6 But instead, one brother goes to law against another–and this in front of unbelievers! Continue reading

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The Prostitute, the Pharisee, and the Prophet

matt261.jpgIt looked like another night of degradation, of providing sexual favors to men who’d preach her into hell the following Shabbat—men who enjoyed her presence at night but denied knowing her by day. Miriam hated her life and was beginning to hate herself.

As she walked to her usual spot, she saw two women rushing toward the home of Simon the Pharisee. She could just barely hear them talking. “Simon has invited Jesus of Nazareth to dinner! They say this Jesus can do miracles! Some say he’s a prophet,” the first one said.

“That’s nothing,” her companion said. “He even forgives sins. At least he says he does.”

“You mean, like John the Baptist? Will he baptize us?” Continue reading

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The Church Treasury, Judas, and Jesus’ Money Bag: A Parable

collection.jpgIt was perhaps the most well-attended elders and deacons meeting ever. The elders had called the meeting to discuss building a new church building, and everyone wanted to participate in such a momentous decision.

There was no choice but to relocate. The city had condemned the building for an interstate extension and had paid very well for the church’s lot and building. Continue reading

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