I received the following comment over at GraceConversation.com, at the post “Proposition One: Doctrinal error can lead to eternal damnation, by Phil Sanders.” For some reason, I’m not getting current notices of comments there, and so this response is a little belated (and I’ve had to delete several months of spam).
For new readers, GraceConversation was a 2009 dialogue among me, Gregory Alan Tidwell (who later became editor of the Gospel Advocate), Phil Sanders (who later became the featured speaker for SearchTV), and Todd Deaver (author of Facing Our Failure). Tidwell had to drop out for unrelated reasons, and Mac Deaver stepped in for him. The discussion centered on what is a “salvation issue”? That is, which errors damn and which do not.
A reader, kgag63, asked,
I was married previously. Got divorced after 4.5 yrs after a terrible marriage. As far as I know there was no sexual adultery involved by my ex. He was a terrible provider, we had a child together, and we lived off several family members. My daughter and I were placed in a roach infested basement with little heat while he slept upstairs in a warm room near his parents.
I remarried. Wonderful husband. 27 years married, members of the church of Christ. Studied hard last two years.
The way we understand the Bible, I shouldn’t have remarried. Now we’re both adulterers in God’s eyes. We divorced to get our lives right with God this last August. Absolutely heartbreaking because we love each other so but know no other way to live right in God’s eyes.
Several elders and our preacher have issues with our decision. No one can give me scripture to make my heart feel all right to stay married. I’m asking your opinion on what Bible teaches in NT for our situation. We were both baptized for 1st time after we were married but I don’t feel it matters. What do you feel the Bible says?
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