Category Archives: Leadership

Elders: The Care and Feeding of Elders in a Progressive Congregation: Unresolved Anger with Parents and Former Employers

* Don’t invite former employers and parents into the room Sometimes a minister carries around gaping wounds from previous elderships. He feels betrayed or abused, and so he has trouble imagining that the new eldership will be any better. Whatever … Continue reading

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Elders: The Care and Feeding of Elders in a Progressive Congregation: Honesty; Seminars

* It’s fine for ministers to collaborate with each other, but not against the elders. No block voting. Ever. A minister feels oh-so strongly that the parking lot needs to be restriped. He’s afraid the elders will say no. And … Continue reading

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Elders: The Care and Feeding of Elders in a Progressive Congregation: Not Destroying the Relationship

* No surprises We say to the staff: “Don’t assume that you have to drag us kicking and screaming into a more progressive worship style. Don’t try to push and manipulate us piecemeal. Don’t dare add innovations to the worship … Continue reading

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Elders: The Care and Feeding of Elders in a Progressive Congregation: Building the Relationship

* Ask to meet regularly — as regularly as the elders will permit Ministers are busy (or should be). They have deadlines and commitments. They often resent time spent in meetings, especially in meetings with elders. After all, a meeting … Continue reading

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Elders: The Care and Feeding of Elders in a Progressive Congregation: Defining the Relationship

* If the elders haven’t said, the ministers should ask the elders what their relationship should be. I think the relationship between ministers and elders should be defined and stated. Some elders fall into the habit of treating ministers as … Continue reading

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Elders: The Care and Feeding of Elders in a Progressive Congregation: Introduction

Consider a typical progressive Church of Christ, led by a plurality of elders with two or more ministers on staff. Everyone is qualified for his position. The elders are good elders. The ministers are good ministers. Query: how should they … Continue reading

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Responding when you disagree with the teacher

I get emails — Reading your blog has been very enlightening for me. I grew up in a small Church of Christ  Now I’ve moved back to the area and my wife and I are attending there again. It is … Continue reading

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Leading Change: Email from a Non-institutional Preacher

I get emails — Allow me to explain why I am writing. In short, here is what you may want to know: I preach for an “anti” church of Christ. I have been on a spiritual journey the last 2 … Continue reading

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A Different Way to Do Teen Ministry Campus Ministry Church, On Gittin’ ‘R Done

The putting-into-effect process Most churches have a deacon or a committee in charge of missions. Usually there’s an elder with oversight of that ministry or who just has a heart for missions. (Not many churches do missions without such an … Continue reading

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A Different Way to Do Teen Ministry Campus Ministry Church, On Hiring Ministers

I get emails — I am on the search committee for a new children’s minister and in our brainstorming sessions, we have discussed what it might look like to have a more integrated ministry of our children from birth through … Continue reading

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